Sunday, January 17, 2010

Mixed Marriage

Definition: The marriage of a couple who was different cultural, ethnic, or national heritages of backgrounds.

Advantages: -They can take advantage in this special family background to exchange diverse of perspective.

-Children who born in this family can become genius in the future.

-It can help to remove the social and cultural barriers that have divided people for much too long.

18 comments:

  1. Mixed marriages should be encouraged. I will promote the one Malaysia concept.Always get permission from your parents if you intend to follow the mixed marriage way

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  2. where are the other members? Why are they keeping quiet?

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  3. i'm here.. i think mixed marriags is very good..its because, we can know about other races and also culture.. and, in the sometime cases, the baby whos born from mixed marriages, were be intelligent....

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  4. yeah..i agree with ainu..mix marriages have more advantage..but not everyone can accept mix marriages..

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  5. so,hawiah..what do you think about mix marriages??did you agree with us?

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  6. look,hawiah so quiet.. asiah,you said that,not everyone can accept mix marriages..why so said like that?

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  7. hawiah,are you here? what your opinion about asiah's statement, when she said that not everyone can accept mix marriages?? do you agree with asiah?

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  9. I think it depends to on individual.Some people like this mix marriage and some of them don't like mix marriage.But for me i think mix marriages must be encourage.There are many benefit from mix marriages.I have friend that his brother marriage with chines girl.So far they live happily.Furthermore they have 2 children.One boy and one girl.They all cute and smart.The boy pass the exam with flying colors.He get 8A in PMR.so its depends on individual to charge the mix marriage

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  10. I agree with hawiah. intermarriage can bring many advantages. other than deliver their clever and smart, it can also extend the influence of culture, tradition and religion. mean here is, if the person is married to Islam non-Muslims, non-Muslim couples who would be converted to Islam. so therefore, can be seen that intermarriage could expand the influence of Islam itself.

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  11. Now,we can see that some people like to marriage with other race.what your opinion about that?Do you want married with other race?

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  12. that's right ainu,, not everyone can accept mix marriages coz maybe we will get more challenges before we get married..sometimes the parents also not agree with their child who want get married with other races..they fear that their children will be influenced by new culture and new life and will forget about their old life n culture..for this situation,,i think their parents is not open minded..

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  13. nur,,i don't think some people like to marriage with other races..for me,, i think i prefer to choose pure malay because it easy to communicate each other and they also more understanding abaout our culture.But i don't know that i can get pure malay for one day..if my fate with other races,,i just accept it..hihihi~~

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  14. Nur,I also interested in mixed .. but, still have mixed disadvantages .. most non-Muslims, who married a Muslim would convert to Islam just to marry .. but less than the actual practice the teachings of Islam .. when divorce happens in the marriage, the couple will choose to exit from Islam. Is not this show act mock the teachings of Islam itself?

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  15. em i agree with your opinion.Only few people like to marriage with other races.For me,i prefer to choose same race.But the person who want marriage with other races must prepare herself to faces any problem.

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  16. must prepared themselve? hmm...what do you meant nur? can you explaint about it, so that other people can clear about that? whether they need to follow any course before they are married couples that are not come from the same races, or what? can you explain further about that nur? or asiah and other followers also have any opinion about that statement?

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  17. yes..,they must prepare themselves before get married with other races.I believe many problem will appears when they get married.Follow any course before get married is also the best way.Beside that, as Islam.before we get married with other races,we must make sure that the person know about Islam in depth and they really want learn about Islam.So it can make our marriage everlasting

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  18. oh yes nur.... you are right once ... and I highly agree with you opinion... i also think that, the person who want married with people who not come from same races, should take any course so that there is any problem will happend in the future.. there can go for counseling and get some advice to before there get married...

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